"Most of us can read the writing on the wall; we just assume it's addressed to someone else."
~ Ivrn Ball
Although there are some things that we can't control, we must take RESPONSIBILITY for the things we CAN control. Don't blame someone else for a problem YOU created or a problem you did not create but continue to allow yourself to be tormented by. Sometimes the writing on the wall is clear but often we pretend it is covered in paint to avoid the message.
The best way to grow is by acknowledging your faults and taking responsibility for your actions by listening carefully to the writing on the wall. The writing on the wall comes in many forms; faith, clairvoyance, intuition, guardian angel, that little voice in your head, six sense, a hunch and many other forms. Every day is a day where you have the opportunity to take control of your life and define what your present position in life is or what your future will be.